The grace of giving

2 Corinthians 8:1-15 ESV

We want you to know, brothers, about the grace of God that has been given among the churches of Macedonia, for in a severe test of affliction, their abundance of joy and their extreme poverty have overflowed in a wealth of generosity on their part. For they gave according to their means, as I can testify, and beyond their means, of their own accord, begging us earnestly for the favor of taking part in the relief of the saints— and this, not as we expected, but they gave themselves first to the Lord and then by the will of God to us. Accordingly, we urged Titus that as he had started, so he should complete among you this act of grace. But as you excel in everything—in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in all earnestness, and in our love for you—see that you excel in this act of grace also.   I say this not as a command, but to prove by the earnestness of others that your love also is genuine. For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you by his poverty might become rich. And in this matter I give my judgment: this benefits you, who a year ago started not only to do this work but also to desire to do it. So now finish doing it as well, so that your readiness in desiring it may be matched by your completing it out of what you have. For if the readiness is there, it is acceptable according to what a person has, not according to what he does not have. For I do not mean that others should be eased and you burdened, but that as a matter of fairness your abundance at the present time should supply their need, so that their abundance may supply your need, that there may be fairness. As it is written, “Whoever gathered much had nothing left over, and whoever gathered little had no lack.”

Rev. Won Ho Kim

Fundraising for missions is today's topic. I want to encourage and challenge you to give generously to missions in China. Not only of your money, but also your time and energy.

How did they give? Eagerly.

The church in Macedonia gave eagerly. In the midst of affliction, they gave. They gave not just as much as they had. They have beyond their means. This giving cost them something. They were poor and begging to give more. They give  sacrificially. This level of giving is a reflection of their knowledge and understanding of the grace of God.

Why did they give? Equity.

They give out of a sense of fairness. It isn't that everyone should have the same amount of money. It is so that no one is lacking. Everyone should have enough. China has spiritual lack. So we who have a solid church, should share so that other brothers and sisters can have the same opportunity.

What can empower us to give? The example in Jesus

The grace we have received through Christ shows us how we should give. Christ become poor so that we would be rich. He was rejected so that we would be welcomed. He was tempted so we could be comforted. He was killed and raised so that we could have life.

Wisdom with wealth

Proverbs 30:8-9 ESV

Remove far from me falsehood and lying; give me neither poverty nor riches; feed me with the food that is needful for me,  lest I be full and deny you and say, “Who is the Lord ?” or lest I be poor and steal and profane the name of my God.

Rev. Dwight Yoo

Money can affect us profoundly. When we win money or are having financial difficulties, it can change our outlook and emotions. Jesus spoke more about money than heaven or hell. It is a very important topic.

Today we will focus on our attitude towards money. Next week will address how we spend money.

Goodness of wealth

Money is not inherently evil. God created a material world and blessed people with great wealth, material wealth. God blessed Abraham with material wealth. He blessed Israel with a land flowing with milk and honey...  a material blessing. Prosperity is not evil, but rather it is supposed to point us towards the joy giver, God.

Dangers of wealth

All good gifts of God can be twisted and misused by our own hearts. Sex, for instance, is a good gift, but we often misuse it. It brings harm instead of good. So it is with wealth. It becomes an addiction rather than a blessing that points us to God.

But unlike other sins, it is easy to be deceived. What is normal for American Christians... may not be normal at all. We are living in a sexualized culture, but we also live in a very materialistic culture. Like a leper born in a leper colony, it is hard to know what normal looks like. Unless we have left our comfy life here, can we see the difference between actual needs and wants. Not only that, but it can become Lord of our life rather than Jesus.

Matthew 19:2, 21-22 ESV

And large crowds followed him, and he healed them there.  Jesus said to him, “If you would be perfect, go, sell what you possess and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.”  When the young man heard this he went away sorrowful, for he had great possessions.

1 Timothy 6:10 ESV

For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs.

One of the dangers of wealth is it's distractive power. It can divert our attention from God, family, and friends. In pursuit of a rich lifestyle, people lose relationships, friends, family, and marriages. People work so hard that they don't have time for their relationships.

Proverbs 15:17 ESV

Better is a dinner of herbs where love is than a fattened ox and hatred with it.

Not only that, but it can distract us from our eternal standing with God. We are so consumed with money and material wealth, we do not consider God, Hell, and Heaven. We invest our time and resources in ephemeral worldly wealth rather than eternal spiritual riches. We may end up "as one escaping through the flames."

Proverbs 23:4-5 ESV

Do not toil to acquire wealth; be discerning enough to desist.  When your eyes light on it, it is gone, for suddenly it sprouts wings, flying like an eagle toward heaven.

Wrap up

1 Timothy 6:6 ESV

But godliness with contentment is great gain,

God is not calling us all to be middle class. It is not wrong to be rich. Paul even addresses the rich Christians of his day.

1 Timothy 6:17-19 ESV

As for the rich in this present age, charge them not to be haughty, nor to set their hopes on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly provides us with everything to enjoy. They are to do good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share, thus storing up treasure for themselves as a good foundation for the future, so that they may take hold of that which is truly life.

We are called to live and hope in God. If we woke up tomorrow with no money, we should still be content with God and with our basic needs being met. Our hope should remain in God and heaven, rather than feeling proud of our riches. Not only the rich, but also the poor.

2 Corinthians 8:9 ESV

For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you by his poverty might become rich.

We are discontent when we are mastered with money and material wealth. But when we are in Christ, we remember that we deserved wrath. But instead we received a great inheritance through Jesus. Not only that, but Jesus became poor for our sake. That realization should humble us and bring contentment. Christ's sacrifice has brought us eternal wealth.

Proverbs 18:11 ESV

A rich man’s wealth is his strong city, and like a high wall in his imagination.

Making decisions with wisdom

Proverbs 16:1-4, 9, 25, 33 ESV

The plans of the heart belong to man, but the answer of the tongue is from the Lord .  
All the ways of a man are pure in his own eyes, but the Lord weighs the spirit.  
Commit your work to the Lord , and your plans will be established.  
The Lord has made everything for its purpose, even the wicked for the day of trouble.  

The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps. 

There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.  

The lot is cast into the lap, but its every decision is from the Lord .

Proverbs 19:21 ESV

Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand.

Proverbs 21:5 ESV

The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.

Proverbs 27:1 ESV

Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring.

Romans 12:1-2 ESV

I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

Rev. Dan Whang

We often goes through times of darkness and light, but see no meaning to it. God knows but we may not know in the midst of trouble. How then can we act decide wisely?

Two extremes in decision making

Under-spiritualized frantic planner

They tend to plan and worry, but there isn't much prayer. They want to take control of their lives, but the word says this is not within our control. God is in control. We cannot predict tomorrow.

Over-spiritualized passive waiting

We pray but don't act. We wait for some sign from God. Fleeces, clouds in the sky, etc.

God's will should be seen this way:

Sovereign Will - creation
Moral Will - God's will for hour we should live our lives
Will of Direction - God's will for our lives

Views on God's will

Traditional: pray, read scripture, and observe our circumstances. God will give us peace about the right choice.

Traditional Charismatic: in addition to scripture, God can directly speak to us and guide us.

Wisdom: God's purpose is secret. Read scripture, observe our circumstances, and surrender our lives to him. Focus on acting as God desires rather than expecting to know His will.

Christ is our wisdom

We are natural fools. But Christ is our wisdom. He brings us to repentance and to new life.

Application

Commit completely to following Christ
Fully place our lives into his hands. Seek his kingdom rather than our own desires.

Store up God's commands. (Consistently and diligently.)

Turn your ear to wisdom (find good counsel and be teachable)

Call out for insight. (Pray for God's help)

Wisdom is there to grow our faith and help us become closer to God.

Working wisely

Proverbs 6:6-11 ESV

Go to the ant, O sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise.   Without having any chief, officer, or ruler,  she prepares her bread in summer and gathers her food in harvest.   How long will you lie there, O sluggard? When will you arise from your sleep?   A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest,   and poverty will come upon you like a robber, and want like an armed man.

Rev.  Dwight Yoo

Work Diligently

The sluggard lacks initiative. Proverbs describes not only their actions,  but also their life.  They don't move very far.  They take the easy way all the time.  From year to year, they make no progress. They choose comfort and ease every time. It does not apply to things we do not finish.  It is that they consistently do not finish. Additionally, they spend energy on worthless pursuits. Instead of work on things that ultimately matter, we spend it on ill-timed tasks and leisure. They make excuses to avoid work. We rationalize our own laziness. Sluggards are not just lazy. They are proud and self-centered people. They care about their own comfort and self-interest above all else.

Sluggards cause suffering to others.  They bring trouble to those around them. They suffer lack. They can cause harm to coworkers, family, and friends. The one seeking self satisfaction and comfort ends up causing themselves suffering.

The path of the sluggard isn't determined in one choice, but rather one choice after another. Choosing self comfort over the wise choice hour after hour, day after day. We will be surprised by a shock to find that we are the sluggard.

Work as one who has been called

Our lives should be lived as one bought by Christ. Work is not a curse. It existed before sin entered the picture. It is a good thing. It is not a curse. God calls us to work well.  All work is sacred, not just the work of pastors, missionaries, and church positions. All well done work is pleasing to God.

Work in light of Christ's work

Christ's work brings: HOPE, PROTECTION, & ASSURANCE

Our work comes with a measure of futility. But in Christ, our labor for the kingdom is not in vain.  We are not to be a sluggard. But we are not called to become workaholics, work is not our God. Christ died and provided for us. We don't need to prove ourselves through our work. We are to neither make too little or too much of work. Die to yourself to bear fruit for God.

Wisdom's view of Beauty

Proverbs 5:18-19 ESV

Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth,  a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.

Proverbs 11:22 ESV

Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman without discretion.

Proverbs 31:30 ESV

Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

Wisdom recognizes true beauty

Good created things to be beautiful. He not only creates for form and function, but also aesthetically. Appreciation for beauty is found in the word of God. Proverbs and song of Solomon has some examples.

Wisdom recognizes the dangers of beauty

Charm is deceitful. This means that physical beauty can deceive us into making foolish decisions and judgment. Physical beauty can captivate us into adultery or other sins. Don't overlook serious character flaws because of how attractive someone looks.

Physical beauty is vanity. It means that beauty is fleeting. We are getting older and getting less physically attractive over time.

Not only that, but the worldly trends of beauty change. From culture to culture, decade to decade, even year to year... The definition of beauty changes.

We believe that being beautiful and attractive will bring us success and fulfillment. That if we looked better, we would be happier. But we cannot achieve our goal of being beautiful enough. The goalposts are always moving and changing.

Wisdom seeks she finds true beauty

Outside beauty is deceiving and fleeting. But inner beauty, character, is true beauty. This is what should be sought out and pursued.

1 Peter 3:3-4 ESV

Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.

We are not saying that beauty is bad. We should appreciate it. But that which matters more is inner beauty, character and godliness. Grow your inner beauty. This is where our emphasis should be. It will not fade, but grow over time.

Jesus is the personification of this beauty. He did not come as a handsome man, but an average looking Joe. His worth was in His character.

Isaiah 53:2 ESV

For he grew up before him like a young plant, and like a root out of dry ground; he had no form or majesty that we should look at him, and no beauty that we should desire him.

The wisdom of self control

Proverbs 25:28 ESV

A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.

Titus 2:11-12 ESV

For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age,

Rev. Dwight Yoo

A life without self control is like a city without walls.

Centrality of self-control

A city with no walls is defenseless. It was open to attack by wild animals, bandits, and other problems. Lack of self control leads to all sorts of problems. The inability to hold back impulses can destroy your life. Holding a job requires self control. We don't always feel like doing work. But if we only worked when we felt like it, work would never get done well or in a timely manner. But this is not only for our jobs, but our relationships, our prayer life, our families, and other parts of our lives.

Challenge of self-control

Self control is not only vital, but incredibly difficult. We should look up to those whose lives are marked by self control.

Today's culture says that restraints and boundaries are bad. Self control is seen as repression. Society says that we should do as we feel.

Our desires are wrong. We want the wrong things. Or we want good things too much. Overeating, laziness, and others like it are excesses of those good things we want. We look to fill our spiritual desires with other things. We try to fill our spiritual thirst with other things, but we are unsatisfied. We keep clamoring for more. We end up in prisons of our own making. Unrestrained desires will ruin our lives.

Cultivating self-control

Actively managing our lives and desires leads to bountiful results. But we cannot reach self control by sheer effort. How so? Consider this, if an overweight man decides to lose weight. They pursue losing weight and finally become fit. At the end they may end up fearful of regaining weight. They are enslaved to working out, eating right, and healthy habits. They may gain workout partners, but they may lose old friends. They can't enjoy food anymore.

So how then do we cultivate it?

Cry out to God for self-control.

Set boundaries in our life with community support and accountability.

Find contentment at the feet of Christ

Pride goes before destruction

Proverbs 11:2 ESV

When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom.

Proverbs 15:25, 33 ESV

The Lord tears down the house of the proud but maintains the widow’s boundaries.   The fear of the Lord is instruction in wisdom, and humility comes before honor.

Proverbs 18:12 ESV

Before destruction a man’s heart is haughty, but humility comes before honor.

Proverbs 23:17-18 ESV

Let not your heart envy sinners, but continue in the fear of the Lord all the day.  Surely there is a future, and your hope will not be cut off.

Proverbs 27:1-2 ESV

Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring.  Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips.

Rev. Dan Whang

We live in a world that gets us to showcase and glorify ourselves. This world encourages pride. A working definition of pride is elevating ourselves above others, even above God.

Expressions of pride

Competitive Spirit (unhealthy kind)

People don't generally see themselves as proud. But often people want to be richer, smarter, etc. We measure ourselves against others. So what is so wrong about this competitive spirit? We treat people different based on whether they are smarter, richer, etc.

Boasting

We feel slighted when we don't get proper credit. We want to talk about our accomplishments.

Insecure self-absorption

When people try to give you advice or feedback, we take it personally. It is about our self worth. We can't stand it when other people are having fun and making so much noise. We hate all these posts on Facebook because they are doing so well.

Spiritual pride

Some of us do spiritual things for the approval of others. We act humble for public eyes.

Envy

We resent others because we want what they have. We sulk when they succeed and rejoice when others fall. If we admit envy, it means we are small and petty.

If you think you don't suffer from this, consider those you are critical towards. Why are you always looking for fault in them? This is likely envy... A symptom of pride in your heart.

Dangers of pride

Pride leads to destruction

Destruction doesn't sometimes follow pride. It always follows pride. From the titanic to the tower of Babel, God always destroys the proud. It is almost like a promise.

The proud can never learn

The proud become hardened in their ways. They stop learning because they are always in the right. Even their opinions are right! Eventually, they will not seek the wisdom from God.

God stands opposed to the proud

He will tear down the house of the proud. He calls them to repent and draw close to God. The proud set themselves in enmity towards God.

How to cultivate humility

Remember Jesus is the humble king and keep your gaze on Him

Jesus was never competitive or proud. Instead He came to serve and die for his enemies. This is how we grow humility. We focus on Jesus and become stunned by the grace of God. The vision of Jesus on the cross dying for our sins will humble us.

Remember that Jesus draws near to the humble and honors them

Humility is not hating yourself. It is not low self esteem. It is to stop focusing on ourselves. We are to lose sight of ourselves in the glory of God.

Application

Make your greatest boast in the Lord Jesus Christ and his crucifixion.