Genesis 16:1-16 ESV
Now Sarai, Abram's wife, had borne him no children. She had a female Egyptian servant whose name was Hagar. And Sarai said to Abram, "Behold now, the Lord has prevented me from bearing children. Go in to my servant; it may be that I shall obtain children by her." And Abram listened to the voice of Sarai. So, after Abram had lived ten years in the land of Canaan, Sarai, Abram's wife, took Hagar the Egyptian, her servant, and gave her to Abram her husband as a wife. And he went in to Hagar, and she conceived. And when she saw that she had conceived, she looked with contempt on her mistress. And Sarai said to Abram, "May the wrong done to me be on you! I gave my servant to your embrace, and when she saw that she had conceived, she looked on me with contempt. May the Lord judge between you and me!" But Abram said to Sarai, "Behold, your servant is in your power; do to her as you please." Then Sarai dealt harshly with her, and she fled from her. The angel of the Lord found her by a spring of water in the wilderness, the spring on the way to Shur. And he said, "Hagar, servant of Sarai, where have you come from and where are you going?" She said, "I am fleeing from my mistress Sarai." The angel of the Lord said to her, "Return to your mistress and submit to her." The angel of the Lord also said to her, "I will surely multiply your offspring so that they cannot be numbered for multitude." And the angel of the Lord said to her, "Behold, you are pregnant and shall bear a son. You shall call his name Ishmael, because the Lord has listened to your affliction. He shall be a wild donkey of a man, his hand against everyone and everyone's hand against him, and he shall dwell over against all his kinsmen." So she called the name of the Lord who spoke to her, "You are a God of seeing," for she said, "Truly here I have seen him who looks after me." Therefore the well was called Beer-lahai-roi; it lies between Kadesh and Bered. And Hagar bore Abram a son, and Abram called the name of his son, whom Hagar bore, Ishmael. Abram was eighty-six years old when Hagar bore Ishmael to Abram.
Rev. Dan Whang
Hagar finds incredible hope after much trial, hurt, and trouble. This story reads like a soap to me.
This is ten years after Abram received a promise from God. Sarai told her husband that God had prevented her from having children. She had given up on God keeping His promise. Abram puts up no resistance. He goes along with her leading.
Hagar was a servant of Sarai. Sarai gave her servant to Abram. When Hagar conceived, her status excelled Sarai. In this time, women were valued by their ability to bear children. So Hagar becomes greater. When Sarai experiences this, she takes it out on Abram. And in response, Abram takes a even more passive position. He lets Sarai have her way. Sarai takes out her frustration on Hagar, very likely in the form of physical abuse. So Hagar does the only thing she can, she runs away and gets away from this ugly situation.
When it's clear that God is causing us to wait, the best thing to do is to keep waiting.
Hagar had run away and was on her way back towards Egypt. This is when the Lord catches up with her. It was likely that this story was told to the Israelites while they were fleeing from the Egyptians after for hundred years of oppression. Some may have even thought that Hagar was getting her just desserts. So the rest of this story is much of a shock, God does not deal with her as they would have expected.
God brings Hagar back into the promise of Abram. It is a crazy situation there, but God casts her lot with Abram. Not only that, but God gives a promise of numerous descendants to Hagar as well. They are an echo of the promise given to Abram. God draws her attention from past pain to the hopeful future. It is not comforting, but rather a bracing promise. A foreign slave, an Egyptian receives the words of God.