Now great crowds accompanied him, and he turned and said to them, "If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple. Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple. For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it? Otherwise, when he has laid a foundation and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock him, saying, 'This man began to build and was not able to finish.' Or what king, going out to encounter another king in war, will not sit down first and deliberate whether he is able with ten thousand to meet him who comes against him with twenty thousand? And if not, while the other is yet a great way off, he sends a delegation and asks for terms of peace. So therefore, any one of you who does not renounce all that he has cannot be my disciple. - Luke 14:25-33 ESV
Rev. Dwight Yoo
Forgiveness is available to everyone. Salvation is not by what we have done, but a gift from God. It is freely accepted, but it will cost us everything.
Salvation is not a thing that happens to us, but it is someone. Consider marriage, we don't pay others for their love. We freely choose to live each other. But there is a weighty cost, our money/time is no longer our own.
The context of the call
Jesus had become popular. Crowds had started to follow him. But many people were following him for the wrong reasons. Some wanted healing and miracles. Others heard about free food. Still others thought he was going to Jerusalem to set up a new earthly kingdom.
But Jesus does not gloss over things. He says what constitutes discipleship. He was not about just being popular.
The building of the tower was about considering whether a person starting a task has what is required to complete the project.
The king being attacked must see whether he can handle the cost of war. He must use foresight and wisdom. He is outnumbered. It is not a choice, the war is coming. If he cannot fight off the other army, he must ask for terms of peace. Regardless, there is a cost of either direction.
Choosing discipleship or not has a cost either way. The king in the parable was forced to choose. Both choices have a cost.
Crowd followers are not disciples. They are not useful for the kingdom of God. So the following passage on salt that losses saltiness speaks to this. A church that looks and acts like the world is worthless. It dilutes the witness of Christ.
Cost to be counted
These are the marks of salvation. Giving these up will not save, but they mark a true disciple of Christ.
One can be both wealthy and a true follower of Christ. They prize Jesus over possessions. If God so calls us to it, they would give up everything they have. A Christian can have possessions, but those possessions shall not possess us. They are not where we find our security, our worth, and our ultimate possession. Jesus is what we treasure most.
Jesus is prized above all other relationships. He says we should hate our family. But at the same time, he tells us to love our enemies. He also says that he was not here to abolish the law, but to fulfill it. So what does it mean? Jesus must be loved much more than family and friends. A true Christian must choose to offend family and friends rather than Jesus. Who has the most control and influence over your finances, your thought life, & the way you spend your time? Married folks, do you love Jesus more than your spouse? Parents, do you love Jesus more than your kids?
Jesus is worth more than our own lives. Jesus brought up the cross. It was clear as day to the crowds that day what Jesus meant. The cross meant death and humiliation. And a disciple cannot be above their teacher. We are to die to ourselves. We are to go against our personal preferences, desires, and dreams. We must submit to the Lord's will in all areas of our lives... our wishes, dreams & personal inclinations.
The comfort in the call
For a man to ask these things is insane. This is what a cult leader would sound like. But Jesus is God. And so all of this is perfectly appropriate. But in taking up our cross and following Jesus, we are given more than what we leave behind and give up. God will give so much more than anything we can get from following our personal dreams and desires. He will give us life and eternal glory.
But Jesus is not a cold unfeeling leader. He gave up so much to come to save us. He experienced all these things himself. And if we also take up our cross daily and follow Christ, we also will be lifted into glory as He was.